Gratitude

INTRODUCTION

Gratitude is the quality of being thankful, the readiness to show appreciation for the kindness, help or support received. Sometimes, acts of benevolence are a demonstration of love and/or honour, not necessarily because the giver has in abundance or the receiver is in dire need. Gratitude is often triggered by a deep sense of thoughtfulness and humility (Luke 17:15-17; Romans 16:1-16).

OUTLINE

1. Reasons For Gratitude

2. Approach To Gratitude

REASONS FOR GRATITUDE

Helpers are gifts from God (John 3:27). It takes a heart that is generous and selfless to support others. God is mindful of our good deeds to others (Hebrews 6:10), so being thankful to others for their good acts is proof that we are God’s children.

Gratitude makes givers feel recognised and valued, thereby increasing their likelihood to render more help in the future (Luke 17:17-19). Showing gratitude also keeps us from feeling envious, resentful or entitled (Proverbs 14:30). It fosters humility and joy, which is capable of drawing one closer to God and His blessings. Thankfulness strengthens your connections and improves the quality of your relationship with others.

APPROACH TO GRATITUDE

Valuing people’s acts of kindness and showing gratitude is an attitude we should cultivate. To show gratitude:

Recognise that every act of kindness (whether significant or small) deserves your appreciation (Philippians 4:10).

Acknowledge by mentioning specifically the help or benefit you received (Philippians 4:16; Romans 16:2-3).

Communicate your gratitude promptly to avoid it being seen as an afterthought (Ecclesiastes 3:1; Philippians 4:14).

You may further explain the importance or impact the act has made.

Reciprocate with kindness according to your ability (Joshua 6:25; 1 Samuel 15:6).

CONCLUSION

Gratitude is a constructive way to respond to acts of kindness.

QUESTIONS

State four reasons believers should show gratitude.

Mention four approaches to gratitude.

FURTHER READINGS

SUN: 2 Samuel 2:6.

MON: Romans 1:7-8.

TUE: 1 Thessalonians 5:18.

WED: Joshua 6:25.

THUR: 1 Samuel 15:6.

FRI: Philippians 4:14.

SAT: Romans 16:2-3.

ASSIGNMENT

Write five (5) ways to show gratitude to someone who has helped you in a small but meaningful way.

(2×5 = 10 marks)